Saturday, February 4, 2017

Change the perspective! Look from a different angel...


Hello,
Image result for musings imageI assure you, the following short musings will compel you to change your perspective & look at things from a different angle.

My favourite being being 7





1 Heavy rains remind us of challenges in life. Never ask for a lighter rain, just pray for a better umbrella. That is Attitude.

Image result for fish & ant2 When flood comes, fish eats ants and when flood recedes, ants eat fish. Only time matters. Just hold on. God gives opportunity to every one.


3 In a theatre when drama plays, you opt for front seats. When film is screened, you opt for rear seats. Your position in life is only relative. Not absolute.

4 For making soap, oil is required. But to clean oil, soap is required. This is the irony of life.

5 Life is not about finding the right person. But creating the right relationship.

6 It's not how we care in the beginning. But how much we care till the end.

7 Every problem has (N+1) solutions: where N is the number of solutions that you have tried and 1 is that you have not tried.

8 When you are in problem, don't think it's the End. It is only a Bend in life.
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9 Difference between Man and God is God gives, gives and forgives. Man gets, gets and forgets.

10 Only two category of people are happy in life-The Mad and the Child. Be Mad to achieve a goal. Be a Child to enjoy what you achieved.

11 Never play with the feelings of others. You may win. But loose the person for lifetime.

12 There is NO Escalator to success. ONLY STEPS!!!

Pranaam!

Friday, February 3, 2017

Ducks Quack, Eagle Soars...

So, here is a beautiful story that I came across recently.

This simply puts in perspective how the positive attitude changes what we will be tomorrow!

Read On...!
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Ducks Quack, Eagles Soar

I was waiting in line for a ride at the airport in Dubai. When a cab pulled up, the first thing I noticed was that the taxi was polished to a bright shine. Smartly dressed in a white shirt, black tie, and freshly pressed black slacks, the cab driver jumped out and rounded the car to open the back passenger door for me.

He handed me a laminated card and said: 'I'm Abdul, your driver. While I'm loading your bags in the trunk I'd like you to read my mission statement.'

Taken aback, I read the card. It said: Abdul's Mission Statement:
To get my customers to their destination in the quickest, safest and cheapest way possible in a friendly environment.

This blew me away. Especially when I noticed that the inside of the cab matched the outside. Spotlessly clean!

As he slid behind the wheel, Abdul said, 'Would you like a cup of coffee? I have a thermos of regular and one of decaf.'

I said jokingly, 'No, I'd prefer a soft drink.'

Abdul smiled and said, 'No problem. I have a cooler up front with regular and Diet Coke, lassi, water and orange juice.'

Almost stuttering, I said, 'I'll take a Lassi.'

Handing me my drink, Abdul said, 'If you'd like something to read, I have The NST , Star and Sun Today.'

As they were pulling away, Abdul handed me another laminated card, 'These are the stations I get and the music they play, if you'd like to listen to the radio.'

And as if that weren't enough, Abdul told me that he had the air conditioning on and asked if the temperature was comfortable for me.

Then he advised me of the best route to my destination for that time of day. He also let me know that he'd be happy to chat and tell me about some of the sights or, if I preferred, to leave me with my own thoughts.

'Tell me, Abdul ,' I was amazed and asked him, 'have you always served customers like this?'


Abdul smiled into the rear view mirror. "No, not always. In fact, it's only been in the last two years. My first five years driving, I spent most of my time complaining like all the rest of the cabbies do. Then I heard about POWER OF CHOICE one day."

Power of choice is that you can be a duck or an eagle.

'If you get up in the morning expecting to have a bad day, you'll rarely disappoint yourself. Stop complaining!'

'Don't be a duck. Be an eagle. Ducks quack and complain. Eagles soar above the crowd.'

'That hit me. really hard' said Abdul.

'It is about me. I was always quacking and complaining, so I decided to change my attitude and become an eagle. I looked around at the other cabs and their drivers. The cabs were dirty, the drivers were unfriendly, and the customers were unhappy. So I decided to make some changes, slowly ... a few at a time. When my customers responded well, I did more.'

'I take it that it has paid off for you,' I said.

'It sure has,' Abdul replied. 'My first year as an eagle, I doubled my income from the previous year. This year I'll probably quadruple it. My customers call me for appointments on my cell phone or leave a message on it.'

Abdul made a different choice. He decided to stop quacking like a duck and start soaring like an eagle.

Start becoming an eagle today ... one small step every week..next week... And next...And....

A great Thought..

"You don't die if you fall in water, you die only if you don't swim.

Thats the Real Meaning of Life.

Improve yourself and your skills in a different way.
Be an eagle..
.not a Duck.

Friday, August 26, 2016

Book Review - Junglezen Sheru & Tuesdays with Morrie

Junglezen Sheru by Samarpan:

This is book delves into the leadership styles and tries to explain in the form of Jungle Setup. The characters are Animals and their natural instincts e.g. Wolves(Rig)=cunning, Monkeys (Kapi)=Copy Paste, Elephant (Muktak)=Wisdom & Tortoise (Kurma)=Peaceful etc. juxtaposed with that of real people in real world and how they behave or should behave.

Intrinsic values howsoever basic or little, of a person shouldn’t be altered else you lose the very value of you being part of a system. One should build / work on the intrinsic and enhance so as to shine.

The theory is explained in form of Drama in a Jungle when the King of the Jungle dies and the leadership is handed over to the Monkeys who being good at Copy Paste (read no brain of his own) applies a theory called Junglezen (all are equal irrespective of their place in the food chain) and thus starts the misplacement of powers, theories, values etc.

Explained in simple English the concept of unequal as the essence of being. I think however that the end is little abrupt and leaves a lot to imagination.

Surely recommended for people who wish to start their reading habit as this is a small book and well written.

 Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom:

This book is beautifully written in chapter form and there is a single story woven through the book.

The 2 main characters are Mitch & Morrie. Morrie was a professor in the institute Mitch was the student. Morrie was short heighted but full of life while Mitch was growing up and more bothered about life in front of him but there was a unsaid bond between them. Eventually Morrie is diagnosed with a fatal disease (ALS) and he has a certain time to live.

The disease changes his already different take on life. He talks about death and makes plan to die. Being comfortable with your situation, thinking positive always (even in death), add life to days & not days to death.

-          Accept what you are able to do & what you are not able to do
-          Accept the past as past without denial or discarding it
-          Learn to forgive yourself & others
-          Don’t assume it’s too late to get involved
-          Consumerism is making people distant, enjoying simple things are getting difficult

Mitch met him on Tuesdays (& hence the title of the book) and discussed various facets of life & death. Why people behave in a way that they behave, why your own kids / siblings distance themselves etc etc

This book will certainly change the way you look at life (& death) and treat people. I recommend this book to people who feel shallow in life and meanings of relationships are forgotten.

Hope you enjoy these as much as I did.

Pranaam!

Monday, August 8, 2016

Book Review : "Discover your Destiny" by Robin Sharma

Hello People,

Apart from the interesting, though provoking blogs that I have written in past, here is my first book review of "Discover your Destiny" by Robin Sharma.

The book is written in script form and is a story about 2 characters : Julian (The Mentor) & Dar (the Student/Seeker). Julian is the same monk who sold his Ferrari & went to the Himalayas in search of ‘Nirvana’ while Dar is a successful businessman but has troubled personal life. Dar journey of self-awakening starts when he tries to take his life.

Dar has caring colleagues who insist him to meet Julian and his journey to self-awakening starts. The book talks about the 7 (practical) stages of self-awakening as under and insists on practicing each stage many times till we reach the level of mastery:


  1. Living a lie (The Stage of self-betrayal)
    • “Most people don’t discover how to live until it’s time to die – and that’s a shame”
  2. The Choicepoint (The stage of releasing control & breaking your chains)
    • After you have realized the lies of your life, it will present you 2 choices / lures – continue to awaken or go back to misery
    1. Awareness precedes choice and choice precedes change
  3. Awareness of wonder & possibility (The Stage of seeing with new eyes)
    • Ready to play with possibilities
  4. Instructions from Masters (The stage of learning, failing & preparation)
    •  Fill The Integrity Gap – The gap between who we truly are & the public personas that we present to please the world
  5. Transformation & Rebirth (The stage of emptying & refilling)
    • Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage
  6. The Trial (The Stage of testing & confirmation)
    • Life poses challenges before one discovers the treasure of life
  7. The great awakening of self (The stage of fearlessness)
    • You will be alone in the journey of awakening and you should be fearless
 All of above is not achieved however at the cost of living a life of poor but suggests that one should enjoy the material luxuries of life but keep doing the work on oneself and for people around him/her.


This book talks about getting the best from your life but not what one wants but what one deserves and in best interest. The destiny discovers you provided you have done the preparation and inner work required to seize the opportunity when it presents itself.

I recommend this book to people who wish to clear their minds of confusion, emotions & submission. This book will help understand the fine balance between haves, needs & wants and believe that life is to be lived, enjoyed & experienced both material and spiritual.

Up next will be review on ‘Junglezen Sheru’, followed by ‘Tuesdays with Morrie’

Would appreciate your feedback / addition to this.